THIS ISN’T ABOUT SELF-HELP.
Tom Lyman Coaching exists to help men rise—out of addiction, passivity, and confusion—and into purpose, discipline, and leadership. Through Scripture-based coaching, high-accountability community, and real action steps, you’ll stop hiding and start living.
You don’t need another podcast, planner, or pep talk. You need truth. Structure. And a band of brothers who won’t let you go back to who you were.
IT’S ABOUT SPIRITUAL AUTHORITY, FREEDOM, AND PURPOSE.
NOW OPEN FOR ENROLLMENT!
THE ALSO / AND GROUP
Where Career Meets Calling — and Purpose Meets Peace
This isn’t about choosing between your career or your calling.
It’s about living in alignment with both.
The ALSO / AND Group is a weekly coaching community for men and women ready to redefine success, live with intention, and find joy in both their work and their purpose. Led by Tom Lyman, this space blends bold conversation with real transformation—grounded in the proven principles of The Blueprint Method.
Each session is focused, faith-led, and practical.
You'll walk away with tools that help you bring meaning into your current path—while building a life rich in peace, clarity, and fulfillment. If you’re tired of chasing success that leaves you empty, and you’re ready for more, this is your invitation.
REAL BROTHERHOOD. LASTING BREAKTHROUGH.
You’re Not the Only One Struggling. But You Could Be the First to Change Everything. Your freedom impacts more than just you. When you heal, your family heals. When you rise, others follow. That’s why we don’t do this alone. Our coaching environments are built for honesty, brotherhood, and action—so you can finally break the cycle and build something that lasts.
Here are other ways we help:
ONE-ON-ONE COACHING
A personalized coaching track for men who want direct, high-accountability support in breaking free from addiction, gaining clarity, and growing spiritually, emotionally, and physically. Tailored to your unique challenges, goals, and pace.
GROUP INTENSIVE FOR MEN
12-week cohorts of 4–6 men walking through Recovery → Discovery → Action together. It’s raw, honest, and life-changing.
MARRIAGE INTENSIVES
A 2.5-day breakthrough experience for couples, led by Tom and his wife, Lana. Designed for hope, healing, and restoration.
SPEAKING & EVENTS
Tom brings bold truth and real hope to churches, retreats, conferences, and men’s gatherings.
FREE DOWNLOAD
5 KEYS TO BREAK FREE & REBUILD
This short, powerful resource will walk you through the exact five principles that helped Tom—and now hundreds of other men—step out of shame and into spiritual momentum.
You weren’t made to carry this alone. Start your journey here.
A straightforward guide for Christian men ready to stop circling the same struggles and start living with purpose.
FROM ADDICTED AND ASHAMED TO BOLD AND BUILT.
Tom knows what it’s like to feel stuck. Porn and sex addiction, spiritual apathy, shame, pride, alcohol and drug abuse, suicidal thoughts, and an overall lack of purpose—it nearly cost him everything.
But God.
Now, Tom speaks life and purpose into men around the country—helping them take back their identity, their families, and their faith. His story isn’t just powerful. It’s a reminder that no one is too far gone.
